Went out in the afternoon with connie to bring oscar home
at the boarding place, oscar is so happy finally gets to go home
but when we left he seems sad
hahas..
he is also very calm when the thunders sounded
i was so afraid.
the sky down there was contrasting
one side having thunder storm while the other is scorching hot.
Follw by going to the pet shop buying dog food
i saw this husky so affectionate towards oscar
hahas
When to grab some stuff before sending them back home.
Oscar was so happy to be back at connie's mum place
but as they started talking about the problems between those human
he starts to feel sad already.
i knew it, i saw his look..
very soon, his eyes were red.
seems like tearing though
when we were about to leave,
uncle suddenly fainted and did not have any heartbeat at all
Mummy did CPR (conniedidtheblowlols)
he came round finally and beep poo came.
then we realised that connie actually made oscar stuck behind with the door close
i had to climb over and open it
lols
lucky they did not have window panels....
poor doggy.
it seems that oscar is so happy that he is back home with familiar voice and smell
but then they seems to blame him for everything.
and he is so old alrdy,
maybe pts too if diagnose with depression/anxiety..
sigh.
so angry at them.
pts oscar will not solve problem
people are blaming him simply because they don't want to be responsible.
poor doggy...
Unexplained recurrent injuries or burns
Improbable excuses or refusal to explain injuries
Wearing clothes to cover injuries, even in hot weather
Bald patches
Chronic running away
Fear of medical help or examination
Self-destructive tendencies
Aggression towards others
Fear of physical contact - shrinking back if touched
Admitting that they are punished, but the punishment is excessive (such as a child being beaten every night to 'make him study')
Fear of suspected abuser being contacted
Emotional Abuse
Physical, mental and emotional development lags
Sudden speech disorders
Continual self-depreciation ('I'm stupid, ugly, worthless, etc')
Overreaction to mistakes
Extreme fear of any new situation
Inappropriate response to pain ('I deserve this')
Neurotic behaviour (rocking, hair twisting, self-mutilation)
Extremes of passivity or aggression
Signsofdogsabuse
- Dog has fleas, ticks or flies
- The owner may do nothing or may give the dog a bath, dip it, put a flea collar on it or give it medication after the attack on the dog has become extreme.
- Dog has fleas, ticks or flies a few days to a week after treatment Dog is limping, has a swollen leg or has cuts & scratchesThe owner may do nothing and let the problem heal itself or they may decide to do something after the problem becomes extreme.
- Dog is chained in one spot
- The owner may leave the dog chained up in the same spot for days, weeks and months. On occasion the owner may chain the dog up in a new spot but most of the time they won't.
- Dog is left chained up without a doghouse or shade trees in extreme, moderate and mild heat
- Dog is left chained up without a doghouse or shade trees in rain, wind, and snow and in extreme, moderate and mild cold
- The owner cusses at dog
- The owner hits dogDog never has food in its bowl every time you look
- Dog's ribs are showing more every day Dog never has water in its bowl every time you look
- Dog whines when you water your yardDog throws water up if you give it some
- Dog cries, whines and whimpers when it hears its owner If the dog is half starved or thirsty it will cry, whine and whimper every time it hears its owner. A sign it is begging for food and water.
- Dog lies in one spot for long periods of time. It may appear dead.The dog may not have the strength to move much and desperately needs help.
- The most obvious signs of physical abuse would be broken bones, burns, cuts and lacerations or odd markings like bruises anywhere on their body.
- The owner or caregiver is unusually harsh or aggressive towards the dog.
- The collars may be kept abnormally tight or the dog is kept in remote parts of the yard or home with very little social interaction.
- They may have a history of injuries, or repeatedly get injuries of a particular kind. The injuries may be poorly attended to or not attended to at all.
- The owner or keeper denies the injuries, doesn't seem to be able to explain the injuries or downplays the seriousness of the obvious signs.
- Dogs that are abused may show behavior changes such as signs of being afraid around the owner or any person or they may be unusually subdued and submissive, cowering, head down, tail between the legs or hiding when the person comes into view.
- They may whimper or cry in fear when they are near the abuser. They may overreact to the presence of a particular object like a leash or a stick.
- The dog may show signs of malnutrition looking underweight, or acting desperate for any crumb of food. T
- hey may look weak and lack energy.
- They may bark obsessively in hunger.
- They may show signs of chained aggression as if they had been teased or mistreated or they may nip or bite in fear .
- They may growl for unknown reasons or in the presence of their owner or other people involved in the abuse.
- The owner may repeatedly have dogs that seem to die at a young age. Keep in mind some of these things may not mean abuse at all but if you suspect it, keep an eye on the dog and the owners .
Oh well its not many but sparks that started a fire is always a hit and a scolding.
A very good exmaple will be _______
Labels: abuse..
when i was in upper primary many times he would ask my sis to go into the room and whack for no reason or over slightest thing.
year 2003,P5
I could stand no more for such a stupid action of his.
I went into the room and took the cane from him and scolded him right in his face and took my sis away.
2004
it just gets more and more often.
2005, sec 1.
he went berserk in the morning trying to stop me from using laptop by placing the password.
He threw things around and temper too.
he went into my room and threw my things around too
Mummy argued with him and how dare he push mummy made her almost fall.
(p.s i broke that stupid pass)
same thing happen more often than ever in that following year.
2007, sec 3.
December 30 2007
He was unhappy that I got a new room
but still wants to place somethings in my old room
he threw all my beloved items in that big garbage bag like no memories at all
i was so pissed off
you can place your things everywhere and anywhere while i can't
bastard
me: STARE
bastard: stare what stare
(p.s next time i shall use this.)
went into my sis room and started throwing her things
with much force and spoilt them
I went in scolded him
me: throw what throw everything also throw
bastard: ignored and continue STARE!
me: snatch from him
bastard: what!?
me: ever the same say what will change also never. useless man!
bastard: what you talking *wanted to slap me*
me: stared right into his eyes with hatred and shouted
mummy came out from her room and tried to stop us
damn you old useless thing
i brought everyone to my room except the bastard.
I wail out so loud in my room with my mum and sis
that damn old man stayed in the kitchen to eavesdrop.
Even broke the toy 'hammer' for my dog.
i asked God to take him away from then on...
2008, sec 4 finished Os
Not sure for what again.
he was angry and whack yoyo till i super angry
showed him black face
kept her in my room
mum, sis and i went out for lunch
left the two dogs behind..
(p.s i was so damn worried.)
at the void deck, mum heard him shouted at my dogs.
once more no idea what happen already
but he broke the roller to hold the toilet roll
2009, waiting for poly
once he cook something and mummy forgot to add water
causing the food to be burnt not much at all
and he unhappy
scolded my mum
bastard: you every time also like that.
kicked yoyo's toy and causing it to split
Making loud noises
baning here and there
(p.s you s.t.m? its the first time tut.)
Damn bastard started to whack dogs already.
and scold my sis for being useless and brainless
More frequently unhappy and throw things around and spoil them.
28 febraury 2009
somehow unhappy and whack creamy so damn hard.
sat down there like a guard dog and do not allow creamy to move
kept using the cane and scare her with it
damn old fellow keep coming out of his room to look at her
he also scolded my sis for being brainless
if she is brainless then is your fault lo
(p.s i never knew you got the potential to be a dog.)
(p.s.s if ever she broke down you shall die!)
23 mar 2009 7+p.m
threw his temper when my dog took the food on the table
he continue caning them
i asked him: cane so many times for what
bastard: no reply STARE!
me: who ate it?
bastard: no reply, whack creamy
damn you old fellow.
from what i could is that he is getting more violent than ever..
and no respect for us anymore.
one fine day i am going to show him how much power i have
and he will have no more foothold.
i tell you,
don't think you got train up is good
and you can show your muscles and
how strong you can to throw your temper around.
You will age first i tell you.
you are already 40
uncle..
never ever tell me, you got such a good and nice father.
I don't have it please.
just shut your mouth and do your own things.
Labels: bastard
son of a bitch!
I hope that you will be gone for long
I hope that I/we will never ever see your fucking face again
I hope that you will be rewarded with evil for doing such things
I hope that you will suffer in your days to come
How I wish to tie you up and give you a harsh time for all that you have done to us
How I wish that one fine day you gone out and never be back again
How I wish that that day will come soon
& it shall be the best for us all.
There is no excuses people.
Who says working people are stressful than others?
Is just that as we grow the different stress we faces
but does not mean that its more tougher for them compared to kids.
As a kid, its stressful with the exams and piles of homework
adults think its nothing compared to them but as a kid it is!
If we have to give in to him everything then what about us?
We had to apologise when we are wrong then what about him?
When he gets angry, he get to vent it out on us why?
What right has he got?
A man does not mean you can do that!
Please!
In Singapore society, man does not stand higher than women.
In case you don't know, Singapore protects women....
One fine day....
Woke up really early in the morning just to bath and went out.
During service I heard a verse that made me recalled to high school days
Where we sit down at the parade listening to Pastor John preaching
"Blessed are those whose way is blameless, who walks according to the law of the Lord."
We went down to _____ at Kovan today after service.
Reached there with much reserved feelings and thoughts.
First time in contact with such dog that I never like them at all...(MP mascot)
When I got out of the car, I already shake my head for such place for such a beauty.
It is really spacious but still no.
Stupid fellow in my house says: "why not? it's spacious."
wth
if I ask you daughter to live there can?
Very big what, can run around too!
stupid.
It's a okay place for dogs but not for beauty.
Why can't just buy a private house since able to afford it.
You are just a miser.
I would go as far as I could to keep her by my side unlike you such a miser!
Received few more messages with regards to the notice but...
argh!
Why can't we just move!
I know what I want for birthday already.
I want to move into a private house and keep the dogs with me till death does apart.
I am the dog whisperer
while my mum is the dog seeker.
LOLs
stupid people will never understand.
PETS = AN OLD MAN.
still have to put on the retainer for probably 6 months...
I got a msg from rp that configure need to take 4 hours!
but i managed to finish in 1h 45mins =D
hahas..because
my laptop dun need to dl vista. LOL
going down to Kovan on sat to see creamy potential home..
hello, cky/cje
if next time creamy really lives there then we can meet up so often to go out
as if it would happen
LOL
all i want is you!
we ate and shop around.
we tried the ice shop dessert its not nice at all comparing to AMK hub one.
felt cheated.
while eating i saw someone familiar from BC, never thought i would saw him there.
wonder where did those BC people got posted to..
most likely not the same as me.
i had such a nice day with connie around with us.
laughter and joy filled our day
tomorrow she coming over again to stick with us since oscar is not around with her at home.
maybe bringing creamy to MP for a jab, hopefully she could.
tomorrow i shall change my style out to church =)
oh well more casual then normal since after there going out with creamy the rough girl.
tomorrow need to buy grade four exam book and start on it
a year before exam hopefully i will be able to learn it fast and
same time do grade two.
tomorrow he won't be up there leading so not expecting to see him.
tomorrow shall be a better day..
tomorrow so many.
Labels: tomorrow. so many
I guess the environment have rooms for improvement.
I walked round the area twice and see so many dogs that are abandon, sent for boarding, reported, rescued.
First time in my life seeing so many dogs..
Don't buy a dog but adopt one!
It's really sad to see so many dogs down there but again should be glad they have such a place to stay compared to those straying outside facing what a weather not knowing when will be the end of their life.
We've so far rescued two dogs and a few kittens too.
If only we are rich, then we could let them have such a nice place to stay.
Once again I getting so emo after what that crude guy said today.
There's always other alternative beside putting them to sleep, idiots.
You said you got so many pure breeds can't be re-home but that does not go for other dogs, tut.
She is so much prettier that your dogs.
Anyone who sees it think so too.
If only, I can afford to.
When we left outside the exit, my mum saw a dog killed my one reckless driver
rolling over the dog's neck and gross...
I saw them talking out cards but most likely not for the dog's death instead for their own cars trying to get money from insurance.
Indeed my mum life seems fated with dogs.
if that is true then why?
yes, its good we are so nice to dogs
we think of them
we care for them
we love them
but
why
if we are incapable to afford them?
Yes, from now on my goal is to get 1 B, 1C
-Bungalow
-Car
if only...
Labels: If only
At 10am, creamy started barking to wake me up for breakfast since she could not get into my room.
and she knew it well enough that whenever she barks, sure someone would wake up.
Given them the food and I went back to sleep.
As I went back to my room i heard the pawsteps of creamy but did not much.
later she open my door and came in!!
jumping on my bed waking me up.
I went out with her, saw yoyo eating creamy's food and creamy wants me to help her.
hahahas....
I took the bowl and gave back her
LOL
what a joke!
initially, creamy was the one eating yoyo's food and yoyo seek help from me and now is the opposite.
I think yoyo ate a big mouthful of creamy's food and she bite her bowl asking for more.
my cute doggies!
i only managed to sleep 11 hours straight.
yesterday went out with yvonne to JE for ABRSM exam.
We wanted to go to the nearby shopping mall but seems it closed down already.
we went into the school and waited there for like 40mins before i went in
everyone seems to take such a long time while i only took five minutes...
why? maybe i got it all wrong?
i knew where was my mistakes but no point to get bothered by it anymore.
I felt so nervous and needed some food to calm me down..(imagluttonlol)
we walk to IMM and shop around buying clothes
managed to buy one tee and pants.
x: "why are long pants so ex?"
y: "because they use more materials."
x: "then what about shorts that are ex too? they use lesser materials compare to long pants."
y: "yea hor...i also dunno."
we decided to go home at six plus and walk our way back to MRT station.
hahahs we saw 3 shops down there..
there is a budget outlet i think its same as this fashion but prices are different.
i saw the same shorts in these two shop..the tag also the same one..=.=
went to the platform and there is this secondary sch girl shouting her way out of the train scolding people why keep going in...bla bla
and there's a lady...(ateacher?)
saying don't care them just push your way out...
...=.=!!!...
on the train we were squeezed..
two Mr around me didnt move in where there got more space and we were at the door kena squashed..hahas
we even saw 3 ex-chrians LOL
everywhere i go i see CHRians
there's so much i want to say it out
but then
i can't.
2nd cor 7:10
Godly sorrow bring repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regrets,
but
worldly sorrow brings death.
hahas so unbelievable.
before i left, teacher stroke my hair
hahas..
but she mess my hair up..LOL
she is a nice teacher!
went for breakfast before church
I saw him in white tee today same here =)
but after praise and worship he just disappear
during praise and worship..
well, its nice!
before we ended,
had prayer then lasted awhile
when pastor asked who wants to go off first
i knew the middle will be empty since its filled up with transistors
but isnt it a bit too sad....
i just felt like crying again........
maybe i just bottom it up too much
i manage to see him during lunch with his friends...=)
everyone thinks of human but what about these poor little animals which can't talk?
same as us they are living things, created by God but they are different level as compared to human
what about them?
if people either go heaven or hell then what about these creatures?
i've got a dream nowto help these poor little helpless dogs.
&
Everyday it grows deeper and DEEPER!
It's a miracle Christ in me
It's a mystery that sets me free..
]
I think I am on the verge of breaking down now...?
Maybe I didn't not get enough sleep and such a hectic everyday.
All of a sudden getting emotional about creamy leaving me...
Nowhere to vent it out.
Sigh.
You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love:
Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.
Your views on education:
You may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.
The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.
How do you view success:
You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
pretty accurate anyway. =)
Labels: This is me
It is so sad...
Cats being tortured to death and dog neglected causing it to lose their lives.
These poor little creatures..
Why are there people who love them so much even willingly to protect their dogs and cats with their own lives while there are people hate them so much and torture them to death.
what are those people thinking about?
So much irony things happening around in such a small place.
I managed to post up 2 notices for creamy..
mummy kept asking me if I would be upset for creamy to be re-home.
Of course, i will but in my mind i clearly remembered what she said
[EVEN IF I WANTS TO DUMP HER, YOU ALSO CAN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT]
just because of her words, i always rebuke her..
so what if i'll be sad, its two different things about keeping her and loving her.
My mum is a dog lover too but to some extend..
I would rather her to be re-home then to stay here getting cane or even dump again someday
But still I would love someone who would really loves her to adopt her.
I saw on the net about that dog looking alike to creamy
yups, my mum and sis too thought it was creamy but most likely is!
since the person said...
Understand basic commands like sit, down, in/out (which will have to be established in a new hom) and come, which is dependent on her mood.
the timing matched too..
If it is, then what a owner she/he is.



